Feng Lun: Deciphering The Values Of Success

Your presence only makes people feel comfortable without feeling any unhappy.

The realm of eldest brother is to pursue ego instead of creating self.

This is a kind of values that many successful people do.

Editor's note:

In pursuit of

Feng Lun said that once a person has self-confidence and keeps his promise, he will build others' own self.

At the same time, Feng Lun believed that, for an individual, pursuing the realm of non ego, making your own existence comfortable and joyful for others, you will succeed naturally.

The following is an excerpt from Feng Lun's interview.

Feng Lun:

What is the most important thing in struggle? For example, starting an undertaking is important for money or something other than money. What is beyond money is what I call soft power, that is, those things beyond money.

Why do I say this? (for example), for example, when Li Jiacheng started his own business, he had more money than he had. He was not the richest; Bill? Gates had more business than he had.

Why do people who are richer than him today can't see them? These people are running ahead. Obviously, it is not money that decides that this is something other than money, which decides that he is catching up with the past.

Let me tell you another story. This man is now the top of the list.

(he is my) very good friend.

He once had a friend who borrowed money from him to buy a stock.

At that time he borrowed 50 million from him, and then the friend said, "I'll lend you the money, if we earn both of us, if I lose my money."

(my friend) he said, if you want to borrow money, I don't want to do anything else.

Later, the 50 million (earned) value is 3 billion.

At this time, according to the general thinking, this is the money I lent you, the most money you earn in history. Can you give me 500 million? 1 billion, OK? Let's split the two points.

(but my friend, I call him eldest brother), big brother said I only wanted to lend you money, you just gave me the interest, and the rest is yours.

Finally, (my big brother) asked for 50 million plus interest.

This is something other than money. He is different from others.

Why? Because he has self-confidence and he behaves well. What did I say at the time?

Because of this kind of thing, he established (others to him) very much trust, what is this trust? Later I heard the story, and then I worked with him very steadfast.

Many of us now have "donation gate" and "diploma gate". They only pursue themselves without pursuing no self. They have built themselves up and become more and more cattle X. Wherever they go, everyone else has to follow the crowd. You do not applaud him. He is unhappy. If you do not carry a bag, he will not be happy. If you do not flatter him, he will not be happy.

Go to a place, don't let people feel your presence.

Your presence only makes people feel comfortable without feeling any unhappy.

The realm of eldest brother is to pursue ego instead of creating self.

This is a kind of value.

You will find that many successful people are very different from others in dealing with this kind of thing.